Thank you so so much! You saw my short Form post and then clicked on the article, am I right? Many thanks for the tips. I especially love the aging matriarcharch idea and Queen Mama. As you may know we are moving and leaving my MIL behind. Still she has a great impact on us. She is not answering calls. Doesn't write back or respond at all. She's angry that we leave her behind although our decision has nothing to do with her... I will an article about it and tag you. Many many thanks. Very helpful. How is your relationship with your MIL now?