Hi Patricia, I'm sure you will be a great mother-in-law. Especially, if you can name character traits you like in your future daughter-in-law. That's a really good starting point 😊 Maybe it has to do with insecurity. Maybe not. We will never know her motives because she doesn't analyze her behaviour. She thinks she is perfect. Deep in her heart she may know that she is hurting me but this will never come up on the surface. She doesn't apologize and so on. Let's wait and see. I'll write an article about how to deal with a monster-in-law if I've figured out something.😄