Hello Heather, Thanks for your helpful tips. I really appreciate them. Especially the simple things in life I try to embrace, as you say. Maybe I should give myself a bit more time woth just myself. I love reading and I love a hot bath. Showing an united front to my MIL is crucial. We're still trying to figure this out. Chapeau for doing service for your MIL (although she is or used to be a monster). How old is she?